Sunday, March 6, 2011

How It All Started

February 10th, 2010.  It was a very busy day for me at work.  I am the Branch Manager for Copytronics Information Systems in Orlando, Florida.  It was a very busy day for me...busier than most that I've had in the last 5 months since taking over in my new position with the office equipment company.  Our office is really starting to come together....and the sales numbers with it.  I took a late lunch that day and walked next door to Burger King for the number 5 steakhouse xt combo.  It was just after 2 pm and I was starving....I ordered my food got my tray and then took a seat away from the few other diners that were there at the moment.  As I sat there enjoying the pleasure of a hot juicy burger covered in steak sauce....I started to feel a little overwhelmed.  The last 5 months for me had been very rocky....taking over a failing office and turning it around in a short period of time is very stressful.  There are a lot of people that wanted to see me fail for their own personal motivations.  I found out last week that my wife is pregnant so that added another element of excitement and stress about my future.  I sat there at my table feeling alone for the moment.  I was able to just decompress and gather my thoughts.  Looking down at the napkins on my tray I stared to wonder what I could do to take the next step with my life.  I was generally happy, excited about starting a family, happy with my marraige, and feeling like my job was finally coming together.  My wife and I belong to a Church that we love and we attend services at weekly.  I knew, deep down though, that something was incomplete.  There was still more for me to do.  That being said, I felt stuck...stuck at my job....losing my energy day by day...gaining weight, losing my youth, and becoming complacent with my life.  Staring down at those napkins on my tray I started to have a crazy idea.  What if I could take control of my life starting in this very moment....what would I do?  The really sad and scary to me was that I had no idea...  The idea of being an astronaut or a professional athlete have passed me by.  Jack Bauer, James Bond, and Jason Bourne would all be great aspirations, but I told myself...David...you have a baby on the way....So I decided I couldn't be a super secret agent spy rockstar.  Back to square one.  Then it hit me...what if I just changed one thing?  I could just pick one simple thing in my life to improve every day.  Things at work, things at home, my personal habits, and goals that I would set.  So, I grabbed the 4 napkins in front of me and developed a four step plan to become a better and more purpose driven me.  They read:

Step One:         Come Up With One Thing To Improve Every Day.
Step Two:         Improve One Thing Every Day.
Step Three:       Measure The Success Of The Improvement At 30 Days And 1 Year.
Step Four:         Get More Napkins.

It takes a lot of napkins to clean up after a steakhouse XT burger.  So, I grabbed more napkins, cleaned up, and bounced back over to my office with some measured purpose in my step. 

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